I also made a rough writing plan by the month for the year, but the amount of times I’ve told my therapist “I don’t have ANYONE telling me what’s the right thing to do! Or when!”…It’s both freeing and disorienting for sure.
It's both empowering and distressing to be the only one calling the shots/responsible for them! I try to remember that many of my rules/standards/schedule are self-imposed, and that no one is judging quite as harshly as myself - so I gotta remember to give myself grace & trust when navigating new waters :'))
I also made a rough writing plan by the month for the year, but the amount of times I’ve told my therapist “I don’t have ANYONE telling me what’s the right thing to do! Or when!”…It’s both freeing and disorienting for sure.
Cheering for you from afar as always!
It's both empowering and distressing to be the only one calling the shots/responsible for them! I try to remember that many of my rules/standards/schedule are self-imposed, and that no one is judging quite as harshly as myself - so I gotta remember to give myself grace & trust when navigating new waters :'))